Sunday, March 10, 2013

Leader VS Follower

I read an interesting article that is helpful to students especially to college and high school students. It help you to realize you are a person more to be leading or following.

Here is the article:


Qualities of a leader:
 
1. During a group project do you usually feel comfortable stepping up and telling others what to do?
 
Generally leaders are willing to take on responsibility and distribute that responsibility to other people. They are able to direct their peers in a professional way and oversee a final product. 
 
2. If you have a problem with work or school do you tend to worry about it silently?
 
Leaders more so tend to worry about issues or problems of a company or a project at large. This is why they work well with followers who can willingly share needed information with them to help alleviate stress and pressure. They see an assignment as their main responsibility and are concerned with doing well and succeeding. 
 
3. Do you generally like to give advice and constructive criticism to others? Do you feel good when you help others? 
 
Students who are leaders are natural born mentors. They feel comfortable acting as a coach or an adviser and giving useful advice and recommendations to those around them. 
 
4. Some words you would use to describe yourself are: charismatic, confident and assertive.
 
Leaders are often considered to obtain these qualities. They appear charming and poised in the eyes of their peers and are confident and forward in their decisions. 
 
5. If your friends or roommates are in a fight, do you tend to take one persons side over another?
 
Leaders are often very confident in their opinions and beliefs. They work hard to persuade others of their ideas and are very much self-assured, which is why others look up to them. 
 
 
Qualities of a follower:
 
1. During a group project are you more likely to take direction from someone else in the group? 
 
Followers tend to be more comfortable being told what to do and working more behind the scenes to achieve a common goal. They take direction well and like having someone guide them through a process. 
 
2. If you have a problem with work or school are you usually willing to talk about it with someone?
 
Students who are followers are often considered good communicators. They are able to relay a problem to their boss or professor and are proactive in sharing important information. They work in the interest of the company as a whole. 
 
3. In general do you take criticism and suggestions well? 
 
Often times followers will take critiques and suggestions with a positive attitude. They are able to transform criticism into proactive actions that benefit a goal at large. 
 
4. Some words you would use to describe yourself are: hard working, proactive and passionate.
 
Followers have a very strong work ethic. They work well out of the spotlight and take direction and feedback very well. They are passionate about the end goal and are dedicated to getting there. 
 
5. If your friends or roommates are in a fight do you usually try to mediate get them to hear the other persons side?
 
Followers are good at seeing someone else’s perspective. They are open to new ideas and strategies and willing to work with someone else’s plan. They are concerned with getting many opinions and ideas in order to achieve the best possible goal.  


by. Jennifer Lavoie, on Januaru 10,2013

Wednesday, March 6, 2013

下午的涂鸦


I am not that cheerful

I don't think I am very cheerful, really. I am not that kind of people you think. It is hard to define myself.

I like to have fun. I like to know more people, like to felling what they feel, hear their stories...steal their experiences.

However, I enjoy my space, my solely time also. I do not hate to join others.

I am low-confidence but I am arrogant at the same time. Poor kiwi!

原来是道别

  轻风,原来前几天你是来道别的。原谅我的无知,只是一味地享受与你共乐,却没察觉你离去的痕迹。我怎么忘了,炎夏到来,就是你离去之时?

  我怎么忘了  祝你一路安好?

  我怎么忘了  挽留你?

  我怎么忘了  饮酒为你送行?

  青山横北郭,白水绕东城。此地一为别,孤蓬万里征。

  别了,轻风。

Sunday, March 3, 2013

飒爽清晨

  轻风承载着早晨的冰凉,刮进了凉亭。我脱掉了外套,想切身与风交流。风轻轻柔柔地佛过我的肌肤,心底是无尽的惬意舒适。尤其风从脚趾缝穿过,让人忍不住笑出来。闭起眼,仰起头,感觉风轻抚脸颊。在繁重的功课里,偷闲……

Saturday, March 2, 2013

Eating Time~!

Hang out with Queen to have a gourmet exploration!
It is nice to have this outing.
Don't care about budget or body weight.

This time is a short outing. We start from dinner.
Yuzu is a nice Japanese restaurant.
 Cuttlefish fried with butter and egg & soba set


 The images below are suit for tea time. A! It's not from Yuzu~ Yuzu dessert is not that attractive enough, but the main dishes is really nice.




Friday, March 1, 2013

神的存在

  最近听我一个朋友说,他不相信神,任何宗教或者任何神她都不信,也不顺服。他说,他是很自私的人,不想去行善赚什么回报。他认为人死后就是消失。

   如果你真的这样认为,那么你怕什么?你可以尽情去做任何你想做的事,反正最多就是一死,然后消失。你为什么怕死?因为这个世界很好?你还想活久一点?那么如果有一天你得不到你很想要的东西,如果你杀了个人你就能得到,你会做吗?你究竟为什么会愿意顺服在法律、道德之下?

  再来,基督教不是行善得回报的宗教。我们得到救赎完全是因神的慈爱,白白赐恩典给我们这些卑微被神所造的人类。神是如此圣洁、公义,人做什么善事可以达到神的标准呢?什么是善?为了得到某种好处(包括别的宗教认为死后或者下一世的好处)而做好事,这能称为善吗?为了自己才帮助别人这样难道不是自私吗?

  基督徒要追求圣洁、要行义,不是为了得到什么好处,是因为我们的神 天父 上帝 就是公义、圣洁、良善的,我们行义本就是应当的。作恶事、犯罪使我们应当受审判、灭亡。因为神是如此圣洁,怎么能忍受一点罪恶进入祂圣洁的国度?然而,基督的降生、被钉十字架再复活,是神白白赐给罪人的怜悯、恩典,我们应当赞美、感谢我们的神!